tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692345008570298281.post4050305494030480818..comments2023-11-05T02:39:08.215-07:00Comments on Godless at BYU: One Problem With My Atheismj-doghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12418860641735535641noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692345008570298281.post-69431896882188223632017-02-18T21:05:54.277-07:002017-02-18T21:05:54.277-07:00Did you know that you can shorten your urls with L...Did you know that you can shorten your urls with <b><a href="http://shortener.syntaxlinks.com/r/LinkShrink" rel="nofollow">LinkShrink</a></b> and <b>earn cash for every visitor to</b> your shortened urls.Bloggerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07287821785570247118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692345008570298281.post-84511694025648324022011-12-10T17:38:36.659-07:002011-12-10T17:38:36.659-07:00Late to the party, but I feel for you. I was in o...Late to the party, but I feel for you. I was in over my head with some girls with issues (at BYU, hurray!) Borderline personality disorder is a bitch.<br /><br />Glad you're no longer involved with Auds and moving on with some less crazy chicks.Drakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16622313946195004021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692345008570298281.post-6490213578114620112010-10-17T22:00:04.793-06:002010-10-17T22:00:04.793-06:00Haha, thanks for saying Auds has issues, I didn...Haha, thanks for saying Auds has issues, I didn't believe that even though several told me so ... it took a clinical psychologist to tell me so before I really began to think that maybe I actually am a pretty decent guy. Luckily for me I have a very good girlfriend right now and I have a hard time seeing things wrong with her, even though I am far more critical now. I keep expecting some horrible thing to come up, cause it seems too good to be true.<br /><br />I enjoyed the story. I hope you enjoy my blog. I have so many lurkers I don't know how many people actually read my blog anymore.j-doghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12418860641735535641noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692345008570298281.post-36621907543615078232010-10-17T10:47:16.808-06:002010-10-17T10:47:16.808-06:00Yes, yes, you should have let Auds go long ago. Y...Yes, yes, you should have let Auds go long ago. You kept going back for more, thinking things would be different each time. Don't do that! Auds has issues. If you want a lesser risk of heartbreak or trouble, avoid girls with such obvious issues. Don't jump in too fast; there are PLENTY of girls out there; be careful of grasping on to one too quickly. Don't put value on people; wait and let them show it. Or not. Know what i mean?<br /><br />May i suggest a book? Co-dependent No More. I think everyone on the planet should read it.<br /><br />Here's a funny story for you. It freaks a lot of people out, but there's a good point involved. Actually, it's extremely personal and i don't want to share it with the world, so i'm going to email it to you....goodbye kittyhttp://cuzthatshowiroll.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692345008570298281.post-77447788621883151442010-09-19T11:36:38.692-06:002010-09-19T11:36:38.692-06:00LOL, oh dear, a hateful reply. But this deserves a...LOL, oh dear, a hateful reply. But this deserves a reply. <br />I definitely still am feeling very hurt, and therefore still very bitter and a little angry. Doesn't mean I'll live up to my misogynistic definition to a 'perfect-t.' But am I interested in love right now? Well, when I wrote this, no, definitely not, but now, not so sure. <br />The racism thing is a very true analogy, and I fully accept that. I however don't think of it as male superiority so much as 'I just don't like women when it comes to romantic relationships.' My 'underlying attitude' has to do with only a handful of girls doing cruel things, and 90% of that being Auds. I definitely, even when angry, still look to my girl friends for advice, comfort, and hopefully to help me get over it all.<br /><br />One thing I will get upset is the Auds 'experience,' you don't really know what all happened there and so you shouldn't even bring it up. I was not the best bf, but I forgave her so much and gave her so many second chances - I was 'blindly' in love and I should have dumped her long before she did me. <br /><br />This blog post is at once very true and very false. I definitely felt that way last summer and when I wrote this. Not so much for the other 99% of my life. Right now I've already had a few people try to give me advice and help me get out of the rut, one being a good friend who happens to be a girl, and another being a girl who happens to be interested in me. Who happens to also be a pretty cool girl.<br /><br />Girls have a way of making you want to be a better person. <br /><br />I feel my angry post has given you a bad impression, and that is purely my fault, doesn't mean I didn't feel that way though, or couldn't in the future. Something I certainly have to recover from. But I hope you glance around at my other posts, especially my post from a week ago on feminism and women, which I have held even through my bitter periods. <br /><br />Hope this reply not only helps me, but you as well.j-doghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12418860641735535641noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692345008570298281.post-81303519967291940912010-09-19T09:04:51.671-06:002010-09-19T09:04:51.671-06:00but I was fine being misogynistic last year
Only ...<i>but I was fine being misogynistic last year</i><br /><br />Only the stupidest, meanest bigot who really did in his heart believe in white supremacy and the inferiority of other races would announce, "This one person of this one color did something to hurt me, and now I treat and think badly of all people of that color, and I am OK with that," and not realize or care what an evil, despicable DUMB asshole he was for saying that.<br /><br />You are right: you really are a misogynist. You rally do believe in male superiority and you really don't like or respect women, and you really don't think you should. Ever think that maybe your underlying attitude had something to do with why "Auds" rejected your nasty ass?<br /><br />I became an atheist not only because religion is illogical, but because so many religionists seemed morally and ethically inferior to me. I thought that atheists were some of the most decent, ethical people on the planet.<br /><br />But then I see people like you.....<br /><br />Plenty of my women friends complain that Mormon men can lose their belief in god, but they can't release their belief in patriarchy, priesthood and male privilege. You're a perfect example of what they mean.<br /><br />I'm glad that you're at least at BYU, since it means your chances of getting laid are that much smaller. Not as small as you deserve, but smaller than if you were at a school where casual sex was more common.<br /><br />Get over the misogyny, bro--for your sake, for the world, for atheism. It really is as ugly as racism.Marconoreply@blogger.com